Category: Wedding Photography

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Mastering Your Wedding Poses: A Pre-Wedding Guide to Looking and Feeling Your Best

Congratulations! Your big day is approaching, and you’re thinking about everything – the dress, the venue, the guest list. But have you thought about how to be in front of the camera?

It’s completely normal to feel a little nervous or awkward about having your photo taken. That’s what this guide is for! Think of it as your posing rehearsal. While I will be there on your wedding day to guide, prompt, and find the most flattering angles, taking some time to practice together at home can make a world of difference.

Our goal is not to make you look like a rigid, posed doll, but to capture the natural joy, connection, and love between the two of you.

Why Practice Your Poses?

1. Confidence Booster: The more familiar you are with basic poses, the more relaxed you’ll be on the day. Relaxation is the key to genuine smiles and expressions.

   
   

2. Saves Time: When you know a few standard setups, we can move through posed shots quickly, leaving more time for you to celebrate.

   
   

3. Identifies “You”: Practicing helps you discover which positions feel the most authentic to you as a couple.

   
   

4. Improves Communication: It’s a fun way to practice communicating with each other and with your photographer.

   
   

Here are a few classic poses and connection techniques to try at home. Don’t take it too seriously – have fun, and focus on your connection!

The Poses: A Visual Guide

Note: In these diagrams, the “poses” show typical body positions. We will always prioritize your comfort and personal style over rigid placement.

1. The Classic Hand-in-Hand Walk

This is the quintessential “relaxed and happy” shot. It encourages natural movement and allows for beautiful, candid expressions.

• How to Practice:

  1. Hold hands loosely (don’t grip!). Interlaced fingers can look tense. A loose, “over-under” hold is usually best.

     
     

  2. Walk slowly toward an imaginary point in the distance (or away from it).

     
     

  3. You can look ahead, but look at each other frequently. Share a joke, smile, or say something funny. The goal is connection, not a military march.

     
     

  4. The photographer will capture the moments in between steps and when you look at each other.

     
     

2. The Chest-to-Chest / The Wrapped “V”

This is a versatile pose that creates a lot of connection points between you. It’s often used for romantic, intimate portraits.

• How to Practice:

  1. Turn your bodies mostly toward each other (creating a shallow “V” shape), then shift one of your hips slightly more forward than the other (closing the “V” to become “chest-to-chest”).

     
     

  2. Partner 1 (shorter): Rest your hands gently on Partner 2’s chest or waist. You can rest your head lightly on their shoulder or chest.

     
     

  3. Partner 2 (taller): Bring your arms up and wrap them gently around Partner 1’s waist or lower back.

     
     

  4. Key Connection: Connect: Lean in slightly so your foreheads touch, or Partner 2, gently kiss Partner 1’s temple. This is about physical proximity and tenderness.

     
     

3. The Promenade / The “Prom” Pose (Updated)

This classic pose shows off the couple and your outfits beautifully, but the key is to make it feel natural, not stiff like an actual prom photo.

• How to Practice:

  1. Stand side-by-side, but slightly turned toward each other, so your inside shoulders are close.

     
     

  2. The Arms: Instead of the old “arm-linked-stiffly,” have the partner closest to the camera bring their inside arm through the other’s arm. The other partner then places their hand gently on that forearm or hand. This creates a much softer “drape.”

     
     

  3. The “Close”: The partner on the outside can place their far hand gently on the other’s waist.

     
     

  4. Look toward the camera, or, for more romance, both look in the same direction off to the side (a “future gaze”).

     
     

4. The Whispering / The Head-on-Shoulder

This is a very easy and universally loved pose for capturing sweet, quiet affection. It’s perfect when one partner is noticeably taller.

• How to Practice:

  1. Partner 1 (taller): Hold Partner 2 gently around the waist or shoulder, pulling them close.

     
     

  2. Partner 2 (shorter): Nestle in close to Partner 1, resting your head gently on their shoulder or the crook of their neck.

     
     

  3. Key Connection: Partner 1, you can lean your head against Partner 2’s or gently whisper something in their ear. Partner 2, this is a great moment to let out a genuine laugh or smile at what you hear.

     
     

  4. Tip: Keep your hands soft. Don’t squeeze tight!

     
     

5. The Seated “Nuzzle”

If we have a bench, stairs, or a grassy hill, a seated pose offers a great variation and a chance for a new kind of connection.

• How to Practice:

  1. Find a comfortable place to sit. Avoid sitting straight on; angle your bodies slightly.

     
     

  2. Connection: Bring your bodies close together.

     
     

  3. One partner can put an arm around the other’s shoulders. The other partner can rest their head on that shoulder.

     
     

  4. The “Nuzzle”: The taller partner can lower their chin to gently nuzzle the other’s hair or temple. This pose looks best when both of you are looking down and away from the camera, or looking softly at each other.

     
     

Key Tips for Great Posing (The “Cheat Sheet”)

Remember, these are guidelines, not rules! We will adjust for your comfort and style on the day.

1. “Always a Micro-Bend”: Try to avoid locked elbows or stiff, straight legs. A tiny bend in joints (elbows, knees) creates softness and better flow.

   
   

2. Soft Hands: Keep your hands relaxed, not balled into fists or stiff like claws. Rest them gently on each other. If you don’t know what to do with a hand, tucking a thumb in a pocket or holding onto your partner’s sleeve works well.

   
   

3. Posture is Everything (Almost): Long necks look elegant. Imagine a string pulling the top of your head up. (But don’t get stiff!)

   
   

4. Connect at Multiple Points: Good posing creates multiple points of contact (hands, shoulders, hips, heads). This looks and feels more romantic.

   
   

5. Let Out a Breath: Right before I take the shot, I’ll prompt you to exhale. It naturally relaxes your shoulders and face.

   
   

6. Trust Me: If a position I suggest feels odd, it’s probably because it looks amazing to the camera. Trust my eye!

   
   

Remember: This is a guide to help you feel prepared. On your wedding day, my priority is not to make you master these poses perfectly, but to capture the joy, the fun, and the absolute love you share. Practice a little, then relax and trust your photographer to do the rest!

Here are a few sample photos from a couple who hired me because they liked my natural and relaxed approach!

Gus and Tina hired me for my unobtrusive natural style, here are a few of their wedding photos!

A Photographer’s Guide –

Let’s be honest, Wales isn’t exactly known for sunshine. If you’re planning a wedding here, the thought of rain has probably crossed your mind at least once. Or twice. Or every time you’ve checked the forecast for the past six months.

The good news? Rain on your wedding day is nowhere near as catastrophic as it feels in the planning stages. Here’s what you actually need to know.

Will rainy photos look awful?

Genuinely, no. Some of the most beautiful wedding photos are taken in overcast or rainy conditions. Harsh sunshine creates squinting, unflattering shadows, and blown-out skies. Soft, cloudy light is actually a photographer’s best friend. It’s even, flattering, and gives images a gorgeous, timeless quality. A little rain can add real drama and atmosphere too.

What about outdoor shots?

If you had your heart set on a specific outdoor location, your photographer will adapt. A good wedding photographer always scouts for covered spots, interesting doorways, dramatic skies, or sheltered areas that work beautifully in wet weather. You might end up with photos you love even more than the ones you originally planned for.

Should I hire umbrellas?

Yes, and do it early! Clear or white umbrellas photograph really well and won’t cast odd colours on your skin. A couple of matching umbrellas for you and your partner can actually become a lovely prop. Some venues will have them on hand, so it’s worth asking.

What if I’m worried about my dress?

Talk to your photographer ahead of the day about your concerns. They’ll work with you to protect the dress while still getting great shots. A light drizzle during a quick outdoor portrait session isn’t going to ruin anything, and most photographers are well practised at working quickly when the weather turns.

Is there anything I can do to prepare?

Have a rough wet-weather plan in place with your venue and photographer before the day. Know which indoor spaces are available for portraits, and try to let go of the idea that rain equals disaster, because it really doesn’t. Some of the most joyful, memorable wedding images come from couples who leaned into the weather rather than fighting it.

Rain is part of life in Wales. It’s part of your story. And in the right hands, it makes for incredible photographs.

Have questions about your wedding day photography? Get in touch – I’d love to hear about your plans.